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Taking Responsibility for Debt While Avoiding Bankruptcy

Taking Responsibility for Debt While Avoiding Bankruptcy
BY Aimee Bennett
 Updated 
Feb 19, 2025
Key Takeaways:
  • Melissa N. relays how her spending habits resulted in debt she couldn’t get out of
  • Efforts to remedy her situation on her own – including a home equity loan and balance transfers – did not work
  • Melissa explains why FDR’s debt resolution program was a better option than bankruptcy for her

Melissa N. was a homeowner and a mother with what she calls a "great job" that paid very well. The now-retired Fayetteville, North Carolina, resident explains that she got into bad spending habits with an "I want it now" mentality, as opposed to a "Do I need it now?" one. For many years, she found herself turning to credit cards to purchase items she wanted, without considering the consequences. "It wasn't something that happened overnight," she says of her mounting debt. "It was progressive."

She tried to remedy the situation on her own, by making bigger monthly payments, taking out a home equity loan and doing balance transfers. "I thought, being an educated woman with a bachelor's degree in engineering, that…I should be able to get out of this." But none of the steps she took changed her spending habits.

When she made the first call to Freedom Debt Relief, she talked with a representative who was "someone like me," says Melissa. "I felt stupid because of the situation I had gotten myself into."

However, the Freedom Debt Relief representative, "made me feel very comfortable," Melissa says.

The representative explained the program to her in detail, Melissa explains. "I felt very…confident that the program was what I needed." In looking at alternatives, Melissa says she was "embarrassed" to go through bankruptcy, and "did not want to have a bad credit rating haunting me for years." She also felt responsible for her debt, and wanted an option that helped her repay her creditors.

"You feel like you're drowning," says Melissa of her spiraling debt. "FDR was that life jacket."

"It was the best decision I ever made," she adds. "My only regret is…I didn't do it sooner."

We looked at a sample of data from Freedom Debt Relief of people seeking debt relief during November 2024. The data uncovers various trends and statistics about people seeking debt help.

Credit Card Usage by Age Group

No matter your age, navigating debt can be daunting. These insights into the credit profiles of debt relief seekers shed light on common financial struggles and paths to recovery.

Here's a snapshot of credit behaviors for November 2024 by age groups among debt relief seekers:

Age groupNumber of open credit cardsAverage (total) BalanceAverage monthly payment
18-253$9,011$282
26-355$12,647$390
35-506$16,172$431
51-658$16,725$529
Over 658$17,047$499
All7$15,142$424

Whether you're starting your financial journey or planning for retirement, these insights can empower you to make informed decisions and work towards a more secure financial future

Home-secured debt – average debt by selected states

According to the 2023 Federal Reserve Survey of Consumer Finances (SCF) (using 2022 data) the average home-secured debt for those with a balance was $212,498. The percentage of families with mortgage debt was 42%.

In November 2024, 25% of the debt relief seekers had a mortgage. The average mortgage debt was $236504, and the average monthly payment was $1882.

Here is a quick look at the top five states by average mortgage balance.

State% with a mortgage balanceAverage mortgage balanceAverage monthly payment
California20$391,113$2,710
District of Columbia17$339,911$2,330
Utah31$316,936$2,094
Nevada25$306,258$2,082
Massachusetts28$297,524$2,290

The statistics are based on all debt relief seekers with a mortgage loan balance over $0.

Housing is an important part of a household's expenses. Remember to consider all your debts when looking for a way to get debt relief.

Manage Your Finances Better

Understanding your debt situation is crucial. It could be high credit use, many tradelines, or a low FICO score. The right debt relief can help you manage your money. Begin your journey to financial stability by taking the first step.

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