Taking Responsibility for Debt While Avoiding Bankruptcy
- UpdatedNov 1, 2024
- Melissa N. relays how her spending habits resulted in debt she couldn’t get out of
- Efforts to remedy her situation on her own – including a home equity loan and balance transfers – did not work
- Melissa explains why FDR’s debt resolution program was a better option than bankruptcy for her
Melissa N. was a homeowner and a mother with what she calls a "great job" that paid very well. The now-retired Fayetteville, North Carolina, resident explains that she got into bad spending habits with an "I want it now" mentality, as opposed to a "Do I need it now?" one. For many years, she found herself turning to credit cards to purchase items she wanted, without considering the consequences. "It wasn't something that happened overnight," she says of her mounting debt. "It was progressive."
She tried to remedy the situation on her own, by making bigger monthly payments, taking out a home equity loan and doing balance transfers. "I thought, being an educated woman with a bachelor's degree in engineering, that…I should be able to get out of this." But none of the steps she took changed her spending habits.
When she made the first call to Freedom Debt Relief, she talked with a representative who was "someone like me," says Melissa. "I felt stupid because of the situation I had gotten myself into."
However, the Freedom Debt Relief representative, "made me feel very comfortable," Melissa says.
The representative explained the program to her in detail, Melissa explains. "I felt very…confident that the program was what I needed." In looking at alternatives, Melissa says she was "embarrassed" to go through bankruptcy, and "did not want to have a bad credit rating haunting me for years." She also felt responsible for her debt, and wanted an option that helped her repay her creditors.
"You feel like you're drowning," says Melissa of her spiraling debt. "FDR was that life jacket."
"It was the best decision I ever made," she adds. "My only regret is…I didn't do it sooner."
Insights into debt relief demographics
We looked at a sample of data from Freedom Debt Relief of people seeking debt relief during September 2024. The data provides insights about key characteristics of debt relief seekers.
Age distribution of debt relief seekers
Debt affects people of all ages, but some age groups are more likely to seek help than others. In September 2024, the average age of people seeking debt relief was 49. The data showed that 16% were over 65, and 17% were between 26-35. Financial hardships can affect anyone, no matter their age, and you can never be too young or too old to seek help.
Credit card debt - average debt by selected states.
According to the 2023 Federal Reserve Survey of Consumer Finances (SCF) the average credit card debt for those with a balance was $6,021. The percentage of families with credit card debt was 45%. (Note: It used 2022 data).
Unsurprisingly, the level of credit card debt among those seeking debt relief was much higher. According to September 2024 data, 88% of the debt relief seekers had a credit card balance. The average credit card balance was $15,142.
Here's a quick look at the top five states based on average credit card balance.
| State | Average credit card balance | Average # of open credit card tradelines | Average credit limit | Average Credit Utilization |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Alaska | $18,493 | 7 | $24,102 | 89% |
| Connecticut | $18,231 | 9 | $28,791 | 94% |
| New Jersey | $18,127 | 9 | $27,261 | 91% |
| Minnesota | $17,744 | 8 | $25,731 | 82% |
| New Hampshire | $17,333 | 8 | $26,156 | 92% |
The statistics are based on all debt relief seekers with a credit card balance over $0.
Are you starting to navigate your finances? Or planning for your retirement? These insights can help you make informed choices. They can help you work toward financial stability and security.
Manage Your Finances Better
Understanding your debt situation is crucial. It could be high credit use, many tradelines, or a low FICO score. The right debt relief can help you manage your money. Begin your journey to financial stability by taking the first step.
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