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3 Expert Tips for Raising Financially Responsible Kids

3 Expert Tips for Raising Financially Responsible Kids
BY John Russo
Mar 6, 2019
 - Updated 
Nov 5, 2024
Key Takeaways:
  • Parents should teach their children to be financially responsible kids like many other life skills.
  • Get your kids involved in everyday financial decisions.
  • To become financially responsible, expose your kids to budgeting, student loans, credit cards, and saving money.

Where did you first learn about personal finance? If you’re like most Americans, it wasn’t at school. While some schools offer personal finance workshops for students, the responsibility of raising financially responsible kids typically falls to parents.

It can be hard to teach your kids about money, especially if it isn’t your strong suit. But raising your kids to be financially responsible could give them a leg up later in life, when they have to start making financial decisions for themselves.

We’ve asked three financial experts to weigh in and share their top tip for what kids need to know about money, and how you can help teach it to them:

1. Get your kids involved in your budget

Money can be tough to talk about. But when you educate your kids about your own finances and model financially responsible behavior, they’re likely to do the same when they grow up.

According to personal finance expert Daniel Cohen, “Showing your kids how you use your budget to pay for monthly expenses, manage debt, and save money helps them understand the basics of financial responsibility. It’s even better if you set them up with their own budget based on their allowance so that they can practice budgeting on their own.”

In addition to helping them set up a budget for their allowance, explaining how your household budget works also can help in the effort of raising financially responsible kids.

2. Teach your kids to save up for large expenses

It’s good to teach your kids basic financial responsibilities like budgeting. But there’s more to personal finance than that. It’s also important to teach them about how to reach big financial goals—like buying a home.

“Talk to your kids about different savings tools so that they become comfortable with these terms and products early on.”

“Talking to your kids about how you’re saving for long-term goals is important, but don’t stop there,” says Kyle Enright, an expert in home mortgages. “Take the opportunity to talk to them about different savings tools: teach them about stocks and bonds, high-yield saving accounts, and any other product you might be using to save for your next home so that they become comfortable with these terms and products early on.”

3. Talk to your kids about student loan debt

Being in debt gets in the way of living how you want to live—a reality that most of us shield our children from. That’s why teaching them about how to avoid the pitfalls of debt when they’re young is a crucial part of raising financially responsible kids.

As many young Americans and their families take on student loans, there have been unintended financial consequences. According to a Freedom Debt Relief survey about how Americans approached their debt, 40 percent said that they were delaying their life goals like home ownership because of debt, including debt from student loans.

“It’s important to have meaningful conversations with your kids as they start the exploration process around going to college,” says Michael Micheletti, Director of Corporate Communications at Freedom Debt Relief. “These conversations need to include the college experience, the impact of student loans, and the importance of a career.”

“It is well documented that student loan debt has had more of a negative impact on millennials when compared to previous generations, so it is important to explore all financing options like Pell Grants, FAFSA, scholarships, grants, the use of home equity, and federal aid.”

As a parent, it’s up to you to educate your kids about being financially responsible. That way, they’ll be on solid financial footing when they’re grown. No matter what you do, don’t be afraid to talk to your kids about money. The more you can teach them early on, the better off they’ll be in the long run.

Raising financially responsible kids starts with you

Teaching your children how to deal with debt and money is important, but it’s always best to educate yourself first. We’ve developed a simple-to-follow guide to help you and your kids create the habits and mindset that will lead to a better financial future. Get started by downloading our free guide right now.

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Debt relief by the numbers

We looked at a sample of data from Freedom Debt Relief of people seeking debt relief during September 2024. This data reveals the diversity of individuals seeking help and provides insights into some of their key characteristics.

Credit Card Usage by Age Group

No matter your age, navigating debt can be daunting. These insights into the credit profiles of debt relief seekers shed light on common financial struggles and paths to recovery.

Here's a snapshot of credit behaviors for September 2024 by age groups among debt relief seekers:

Age groupNumber of open credit cardsAverage (total) BalanceAverage monthly payment
18-253$9,117$254
26-355$12,438$340
35-506$15,436$431
51-658$16,159$467
Over 658$16,547$442
All7$15,142$424

Whether you're starting your financial journey or planning for retirement, these insights can empower you to make informed decisions and work towards a more secure financial future

Credit card debt - average debt by selected states.

According to the 2023 Federal Reserve Survey of Consumer Finances (SCF) the average credit card debt for those with a balance was $6,021. The percentage of families with credit card debt was 45%. (Note: It used 2022 data).

Unsurprisingly, the level of credit card debt among those seeking debt relief was much higher. According to September 2024 data, 88% of the debt relief seekers had a credit card balance. The average credit card balance was $15,142.

Here's a quick look at the top five states based on average credit card balance.

StateAverage credit card balanceAverage # of open credit card tradelinesAverage credit limitAverage Credit Utilization
Alaska$18,4937$24,10289%
Connecticut$18,2319$28,79194%
New Jersey$18,1279$27,26191%
Minnesota$17,7448$25,73182%
New Hampshire$17,3338$26,15692%

The statistics are based on all debt relief seekers with a credit card balance over $0.

Are you starting to navigate your finances? Or planning for your retirement? These insights can help you make informed choices. They can help you work toward financial stability and security.

Manage Your Finances Better

Understanding your debt situation is crucial. It could be high credit use, many tradelines, or a low FICO score. The right debt relief can help you manage your money. Begin your journey to financial stability by taking the first step.

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